August 21st, 2009

Vocal Boy

I'm the Helper. ^.^ Neat!


Your result for The Quick & Painless ENNEAGRAM Test...

2 - The Helper -  Helpers are warm, concerned, nurturing,  and sensitive to other people's needs.

 

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How to Get Along with Me


• Tell me that you appreciate me. Be specific.


• Share fun times with me.


• Take an interest in my problems, though I will probably try to focus on yours.


• Let me know that I am important and special to you.


• Be gentle if you decide to criticize me.


 


In Intimate Relationships


• Reassure me that I am interesting to you.


• Reassure me often that you love me.


• Tell me I'm attractive and that you're glad to be seen with me.


 


What I Like About Being aTWO


• being able to relate easily to people and to make friends


• knowing what people need and being able to make their lives better


• being generous, caring, and warm


• being sensitive to and perceptive about others' feelings


• being enthusiastic and fun-loving, and having a good sense of humor


 


What's Hard About Being a TWO


• not being able to say no


• having low self-esteem


• feeling drained from overdoing for others


• not doing things I really like to do for myself for fear of being selfish


• criticizing myself for not feeling as loving as I think I should


• being upset that others don't tune in to me as much as I tume in to them


• working so hard to be tactful and considerate that I suppress my real feelings


 


TWOs as Children Often


• are very sensitive to disapproval and criticism


• try hard to please their parents by being helpful and understanding


• are outwardly compliant


• are popular or try to be popular with other children


• act coy, precocious, or dramatic in order to get attention


• are clowns and jokers (the more extroverted TWOs), or quiet and shy (the more introverted TWOs)


 


TWOs as Parents


• are good listeners, love their children unconditionally, and are warm and encouraging (or suffer guilt if they aren't)


• are often playful with their children


• wonder: "Am I doing it right?" "Am I giving enough?" "Have I caused irreparable damage?"


• can become fiercely protective



Ref:


Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele, The Enneagram Made Easy. Discover the 9 Types of People.


Harper: San Francisco, 1994, 161 pages

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